Hello, Beloved.

I AM HAZEL-GRACE AND JUST LIKE YOU, I AM SO VERY HUMAN. I FEEL MY EMOTIONS DOWN TO MY CORE.

FROM SHEER ECSTASY TO SOUL-SHAKING GRIEF TO PURE UNADULTERATED JOY—I FEEL THEM ALL…

This work is VERY personal to me.

I overcame nearly two decades of toxic relationships.

I now celebrate abundance and health in my intimate relationships!

My Very Personal Story

Trigger Warning: Violence and Sexuality

I grew up in Texas where sexuality was dirty, bad, wrong, shameful or simply not talked about. Conflict and discipline was dealt with by yelling and corporal punishment. My first sexual encounter as a teenager was not by choice. I also had lots of love, support, care, affection and all of my basic needs were met.


At the age of 29, during a workshop at Burning Man, I discovered my clitoris for the first time and soon there after had a massive sexual healing and awakening.

Six months later I began offering hands on sexual healing sessions as if I had always known how to heal others around sexuality. I spent the next 13 years dedicated to my own personal and professional transformation in relationship and sexuality.

I sing from the mountain top with gratitude for the rich, healthy and secure intimate life I now have. My dad and I have deeply healed much of our relationship and we are best buddies! I have been in the most epic relationship with my beloved Nico for nearly 5 years - and we are still PEAKING! (Hence Peaking Adventures)

The REPAIR Process was born out of the healing work my Dad and I have done, as well as the years of healing that has come out of my relationship with Nico. I am so inspired for people to have access to this wisdom so that they can have generative conflict and deeper trust in their relationships.

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If a more professional bio is what you are after, here you go :)

Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates is a radical permissionist and pleasure warrior here to help eradicate global toxic sexual shame.

Through their compassion, playful, and dynamic facilitation, they are endlessly passionate about humans celebrating their bodies, soul and sexuality. 

Their innovative, fun, and educational style of relationship and intimacy coaching is born out of their deep commitment to creating a more compassionate, loving, and safe world. The 4 corners-stones of their work are:

1. Trauma-Informed Practices

2. Authentic Relating Skills

3. Somatic Sex Education

4. Activism and Inclusivity

With more than 13 years of experience as an evolutionary educator, they bring a unique blend of professional know-how, curiosity, authentic communication, and personal vulnerability to their practice.

Dr. Hazel-Grace is a self-proclaimed “pleasure activist in the making” and has spent the past four years deepening their understanding of social equity work. They are committed to doing their deep inner work and facing their own privilege so that she can create a safer space for ALL; BIPOC, gender diverse folks, people with disabilities, or otherwise marginalized. (Have feedback about my LGQTQ+ inclusivity? Please fill out this form!)

They are a trauma-informed somatic sex educator and a certified sexological bodywork practitioner.

  • Ph.D. in Human Sexuality (Institute of Advanced Studies of Human Sexuality)

  • Masters in Education (Education for the Blind from Western Michigan University)

  • Certified Sex Coach (Dr. Patti Britton)

  • Certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker (Somatic Sex Educators Association)

  • Queer Competency Certification (Embody Emerge)

  • Trauma-Informed Somatic Practitioner (Bridging Soma and Soul Certification)

  • Femme Dom Training (Midori)

  • Certified Circling Facilitator (The Integral Center)

  • Tantra Counselor (Shawn Roop – TantraQuest)

  • Authentic Man Program Facilitator (AMP) 

  • Extensive training in Landmark Education

WHAT PAST CLIENTS HAD TO SAY…

  • male, age 27

    "I came into the experience with a bit of an attitude and an ego rather than having a heart of learning and understanding. I felt I wanted to prove myself to HazelGrace. But when I met her, it was very apparent that she had no ego. She did not boast or gloat about their experiences like so many people. Instead, I saw a powerful individual, undefended by gender or stereotypes. I saw someone that had built an incredible organization without an ego. And most importantly, I felt like I wasn’t judged for having one myself."

Interested In Working Together?

I offer a FREE 30-minute Discovery Session to determine if we are a good fit.